Tuesday, December 16, 2008

My day so far

Well, I am officially convinced that something called "bus karma" exists. Sometimes I love bus karma, other times I hate it. I love it when it means that buses show up just as I arrive at stops, that they are on time, and that there isn't tons of traffic slowing them down. In such instances, I often end up ahead of schedule and in a lovely mood.

I hate bus karma when it means I just miss one bus and have to wait 15 minutes or more for the next. I hate bus karma when it means that the buses seem to be always on time EXCEPT when I really need to be somewhere. Bus karma is incredible because it can shift the time it takes you to get places 15-30 minutes in either direction.

Here is today's story. First of all, I realized this morning that my umbrella (ella ella) is broken. This is Italy umbrella #2, after #1 was stolen (I think) while I was shopping in September. #2, the red one, was given to me by Cindy because she found it somewhere and already had one. So at least I didn't pay for #2. However now it seems that I will have to go procure #3, as it has rained more days than not for about a solid month now. The Arno is pretty high, but Florence hasn't had the flooding issues that Venice, Rome, and other cities have had. Since the umbrella was broken, I decided to wear my rain jacket instead of my winter coat this morning (it also hasn't been VERY cold, at least compared to places like Connecticut).

I left the house at the same time today as I did yesterday, 9 am. I had to be at Scienze Politiche at the same time both days, 10 am. Yesterday it worked out perfectly, even though the second bus I take (all the way to Scienze Politiche) took longer than usual in the rain. Today things happened differently. First off, there are two buses that leave from my "home" stop, let's call them A and B. A buses are more frequent but follow the same route as B buses in the center of town. However from past experience I swore I would never take B buses in the morning when it was raining, since they take a slightly different route and get slowed by traffic. Since I had made this promise to myself, I decided to pass up a B bus this morning and wait for the A bus which was scheduled to arrive soon. Well, the A bus was late. Late enough to get me to Piazza San Marco RIGHT when the next bus was leaving... I saw it driving away and uttered some choice words out loud and in my head. Oh well, I said to myself eventually. There will be another in 15 minutes and I can still get to school right at 10 am. Plus, the bus often pulls up early and has to wait a few minutes, so I will be out of the rain soon enough.

Wrong. I stood at this bus stop, in the rain, being cold and wet and late, for 25 minutes. I did not do such a good job of staying calm this time - I was cursing the gods of bus karma as the minutes ticked by, one after the other. When it finally did come (10 minutes late) I did manage to do some good breathing on the bus. I had no idea if being late to the exam would be a problem or not, but I was comforted by the fact that my professor likes me and seems understanding. When I got to school, I went to my professor's office only to find a sticky note saying another room for the exams. I finally made it to that room, and the exams had already started but it wasn't a huge deal. Basically in Italian exams, a whole group of students shows up at a certain time on a certain day and the professor does their oral exams one by one. The rest of the students sit in class studying and/or listening until it is their turn. Just an entirely different system from the way things go in the US. There were two students from another course who went before me, then the two Italian guys who were also in my class. In addition to that, there were two other girls doing written exams (much like the one I did in November).

I wasn't sure how much of the book I had to study for the exam, but I hoped it wasn't much. I could tell that my professor was basically having conversations with each student, so the exams didn't seem to be too much pressure. I went last, mostly to have a chance to see how the exams were going, and really just had a conversation with my professor about the short paper I had written on American diplomacy at the Paris Peace Conference (post-WWI). At one point I was worried because he kept asking if I had found certain documents, and my answers were, not really... I had been so pleased to find something I could use on one site that I was satisfied with that (and hadn't found much before). I just hoped that wouldn't hurt me too much. In the end, it didn't, because I did really well though who knows how. He also said my Italian writing skills were very good, so maybe that impressed him...

Anyway now I am feeling relieved because the academic pressure is off until January. I was also feeling sort of ill last night and that has almost gone entirely away. As yesterday afternoon wore on, I got a headache which got worse and worse, and my stomach felt weird as well. By the time I was headed home, I was sort of miserable and just wanted to be horizontal on my bed. When it was time for dinner, I tried to eat but food wasn't really agreeing with me. In fact after a little bit, my body got rid of the food and I felt a bit better (not sure how much is TMI there, sorry). Cristina was really sweet and made me some tea with lemon, and then I went to bed nice and early. Cristina and Federico both thought that it was something to do with my digestion, and I certainly have no reason to disagree with them. It's interesting, I definitely had this idea that Italians have all sorts of superstitions about food (what goes together, what doesn't, what you should eat and when), and that is true. But you know, maybe they just know more as well. I will see if I can pick up anymore wisdom in the future...

Also regarding food, I told Lucia on Saturday that 6 pm is a very normal dinner time for American families and she was SHOCKED. She said that for her 6 pm is a time for a snack if anything, not dinner. I have definitely felt recently how the difference in eating time is very present, and very real. I was talking to Dave until dinner time last night, which ended up being almost 9 pm, and he said there would have been outrage at his house if dinner was that late... and I think that would be true in a lot of American homes. Just another Italy/Europe quirk! It is fun to live in a different way and do all the comparing and contrasting...

Anyway, I should be off to get some things done and get lunch. As I found out last week, my best girlfriend from home, Anne, is visiting me starting tomorrow for a few days! She is flying into Pisa late tonight and I am going to pick her up there tomorrow. She spent this semester in Madagascar and is now in Paris til she heads back to the US. However apparently she really wanted to see me so she booked a spur of the moment trip here! How fun! It should be really great, spending the next few days with her. I imagine we'll do some shopping and I am going to try to take her to the Uffizi since she is such an art lover!

Alright, stopping for real now. I hope you are all enjoying the season and feeling the holiday spirit!

A lovely study break...


Ricciarelli - see below for more!


In between these days of working on my paper for the exam coming up Tuesday, yesterday I took a daytrip with Lucia. We went to San Gimignano, a little town called Asciano, and then Siena. In between I got to see some of the beautiful countryside, which was very much like the idyllic images of Tuscany I had from before I came here, except with different colors since it is autumn and it has been raining a lot.

San Gimignano was our first stop. It is famous for its medieval towers, 14 to be exact, those remaining out of an original 72. Much like other Tuscan towns, San Gimignano is very quaint and has city walls all around its exterior. I really loved the atmosphere and the feeling there, and I would love to go back. The main thing Lucia and I did there was see the inside of the Duomo, which was beautifully decorated with frescoes on almost every wall - it seemed the entire interior was covered with frescoes! We spent quite a while identifying what the frescoes were (the life of Jesus, the Old Testament, depictions of heaven and hell) and just admiring it all... photos weren't allowed in there, so you will have to take my word that it was really cool.

After the Duomo we walked around a bit more, and stopped at a bar for late morning cappuccinos and pastry-type snacks. On our way back to the car we both did a little shopping - I bought a postcard and this little alabaster jewelry container, which is really pretty and wasn't too expensive. I don't usually buy that many souvenirs for myself aside from postcards, but I just couldn't resist this! Alabaster is very typical of San Gimignano and a few other nearby towns.

After San Gimignano we went to a town called Asciano, which is very small and not one of the tourist destinations in Tuscany (as far as I can tell). Lucia had the idea that we could grab lunch there but as it turned out we didn't find many restaurants at all! The one we did find closed at 2:30, and it was about 2, but they seemed pretty flexible and let us eat there anyway. We got two appetizers, "crostini neri" and a sampler plate, basically. Crostini neri were a variation on the variety of Tuscan crostini made with bread and a spread involving liver... I know it sounds gross to some but I actually don't mind it so much. They make it very tasty. The sampler plate had all sorts of things - prosciutto, salami, a stuffed mushroom, a piece of souffle, some cheese, and other things. For our meals, we both got pasta - I got "pyramids" filled with pecorino and ricotta and dressed with yellow squash and leeks, and Lucia got a pasta with ragu and duck meat. I definitely enjoyed my pasta but it was another one of those dishes where I am not sure I would get it again. It was certainly fun to try, and it was local!

After Asciano we drove to Siena. It was around Asciano (to and from) that there were some very dramatic views of the countryside - it was great to have the chance to see it! By the time we got to Siena, it was getting dark, but it was enjoyable nonetheless. We made our way to the Duomo there (I really am becoming an expert!) and looked around. One incredibly thing in Siena's Duomo is the Piccolomini Library, which was commissioned by the nephew of the cardinal Piccolomini who eventually became Pope Pius II. The nephew himself also eventually became Pope Pius III. And yes, I just had to look some of that up. Anyway, the library was a room connected to the rest of the church and it too was filled with frescoes depicting the life of the older Piccolomini. It also houses various illuminated choirbooks and manuscripts. It was really impressive and beautiful - and there ARE pictures on Picasa. The rest of the Duomo was very interesting as well - definitely darker on the whole with all sorts of blue/black/green marble decoration, which contrasts with Florence in that Florence's Duomo doesn't have a ton of decoration, and I was thinking also with Cagliari, in that Cagliari's Duomo is very bright, airy, and decorated with lots of white stone.

After the Duomo, Lucia got some information on a museum she wanted to visit (but decided to come back another time since it was so late). Then we walked to Piazza del Campo which is a HUGE piazza in Siena - Lucia thinks it is the most beautiful piazza in all of Italy, which is really saying something! It was certainly breathtaking, and I hope to go back during the day sometime to appreciate in the daylight as well as at night. We then did a little shopping, competing with hoards of Senesi (Sienese people) who were out walking and shopping before dinner time. Lucia bought a few Christmas presents and some wine, and we both bought some Christmas desserts - I got ricciarelli for the family (Cristina, Federico, and Lisa), which are traditional Sienese almond cookies. I had some later that night at dinner and they were really good! (See above for a representative photo!)

After Siena it was time to head back home. Lucia stopped to get gas at one point and I went inside to get us some Cokes, and apparently there was some sort of promotion going on because the woman gave me a Santa hat, emblazoned with a Coca-Cola logo on the front! It made me laugh. I think now I have more or less gifted the hat to Lisa, and that seems appropriate to me. Just another instance of realizing you are never far from American commercialism... for better and for worse.

I really enjoyed the day - riding around in a car was so convenient and it was nice to spend that time with Lucia. We talked a lot, so of course I was blabbing on all day about all sorts of things - in Italian! I would say at this point my Italian is pretty good, but I am always learning new words and phrases so the more I speak the better. I think that is pretty much it - I am going to do another post about today now!

Monday, December 15, 2008

What a special country...

On this particular morning I am using special in the sarcastic/ironic sense. Today was incident/occurrence #500 (probably) that will make me a more patient and tolerant person by the time I return to the US. Here is the latest chapter in my saga of trying to understand the Italian education system and sign up for exams -

As you probably know, I was supposed to "reserve" my spot for two Scienze Politiche exams, to take place today and tomorrow. The one for today was actually only to officially get my grade, as I already did the exam in November and I know how I did. But for making it a matter of record, apparently they designate a time and day to do the exam. I was not finding my exam slots online to register like I should, so first I asked my tutor. Then I asked Lucia. Then Lucia directed me to the office for foreign students. Then I e-mailed my professors. Then one of my professors didn't e-mail me back so I went to her office hours last week to ask what time of day I should show up and to which classroom. I made sure to be at the right room promptly at 10 am today, and I was one of a few from class in addition to many from a couple other of her classes. And you want to know what she said? What with the technical problems, the forms that they produce for us to get our grades (somehow) aren't even ready, and we will have to get the grades in January instead...

Really Italy? Really? I am not even stressed out by this so much as mildly annoyed and less surprised than you would think.

At least now I am here at the Scienze Politiche library to work on my paper for tomorrow. Oh yeah, I have to e-mail that professor to find out where and when I need to go tomorrow because he didn't respond to those questions yet even though I have asked him... always an adventure...

I am working on a post about my weekend but for now I need to focus on the school stuff - I will hopefully finish it tomorrow after the exam. If you'd like to see my daytrip Saturday in pictures, check out Picasa.

If you are a student taking finals I hope they're going well! If you are an adult working I hope things aren't too hectic in the middle of the Christmas season!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Some Observations

Before I get working for the day (which I really actually need to do) I am going to just jot down a few thoughts I have had lately...

1) One place where you can see that Americans adhere more to rules and regulations is when it comes to waiting in lines. When I was waiting to board my Ryanair flights this past weekend, passengers were basically waiting in large clumps which then gradually funneled down into a single file line right before our boarding passes were checked. I spent all that waiting time just surrounded by people. It seemed to be about getting to the front as quickly as possible, regardless if it was before someone who was waiting before you. I found myself fondly thinking back to all those Southwest flights when (even before the number system), people very calmly placed themselves in line right behind the person who was already there... and stayed that way to board the plane. Yes maybe we are more petty about "cutsies" but it is very orderly too. I think I prefer it.

On a sort of related note, one morning at breakfast Federico and I were discussing Italians and their regard for the rules. He talked about people buying fake monthly passes for the bus (I have talked about bus passes previously, see I think two posts down), abusing handicapped passes to park anywhere they want and things like that. Yes, the US has its people who cheat the rules but I really think it is more prevalent here. Federico said that many people have the attitude, well maybe it's against the rules but if I don't get penalized, then what does it matter? Classic free riding kind of stuff. Also reminds me of when we discussed "amoral familism" in Comparative Political Systems - regarding Italy specifically. It is the idea that you take care of those around you in your close circle, whether that is through honest means or not, and don't really care about the rest of the community or society. Obviously you can also see mafia-like elements in that idea. I don't know, I just like thinking about this stuff.

2) I discovered that Cristina and Federico, especially Cristina, are in what seems to be the minority of Italians who do not smoke and who really don't like smokers... I knew they never smoked in the house but had no clue if they ever did outside the house. I did request non-smokers when I filled out my questionnaire for housing though, so I shouldn't be surprised. Cristina told me how at work she used to have to share an enclosed space with about 4 smokers and she really didn't enjoy it. Also, the full ban on smoking on trains is quite recent and she once got stuck in a smoking car on a train from Rome to Firenze and it was unpleasant. Possibly the worst story is that once she was eating in a restaurant while pregnant with Lisa (again, before the ban inside restaurants) and a woman near her was lighting up one cigarette after another after another. Cristina said "Excuse me ma'am, I'm pregnant, could you maybe wait a little while to smoke another one?" and this woman was basically very rude and said something to the effect of "I'll do what I want!" Wow...

3) This is just a bit of news - since I figured out when my philosophy exam will be (January 19) I have started to think of travel options for the time between then and when my parents come in February (which will be right before second semester classes start). I am looking at possibly going to Palermo, Sicily (with a daytrip to a town called Cefalu) in late January, and then to Spain to see Molly and Kristen in early February! I am really psyched that this Spain thing will probably work out so well. I am thinking of flying into Granada, spending about a day there (and seeing the Alhambra!), taking a train to Cordoba, spending about a day there (the Mezquita!), then a train to Madrid and nearby Salamanca which is where Kristen and Molly are going to be studying. I am timing it to get to Salamanca on a Friday, and then we'll probably spend part of the weekend in Madrid as well before I head on back to Italy. I am sooo excited because a) I will get to spend time with them and b) I studied the Ummayads (Muslims) in southern Spain last year at Georgetown and have been pretty fascinated with that part of history ever since. My major is Comparative Studies in Western Europe and the Middle East, with a focus on religion, so that time in Spain when Muslims, Christians, and Jews all lived side by side in this incredibly rich culture is fascinating. Okay, nerd rant ending now... I may well book the plane and the trains in the next couple days, especially since there are REALLY good train discounts (40% and 60%) that are harder to find the later you book. So that is all very exciting!

Alright, I better wrap up now. I really need to make some considerable progress on this paper type thing for the exam I have Tuesday. I am working from home today since, surprise surprise, there is a sciopero generale (a strike). The library at Scienze Politiche is closed, I have no idea if buses are running, and Cristina is even home from work on strike. Plus the weather is kind of dreary outside so it's not too difficult staying inside.

Just wanted to add a few things. I don't have nearly as much work right now as all my friends at Georgetown doing finals (and Kristen in Strasbourg!) but it is time to get down to business nonetheless... so that then some fun can follow! :-)

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Cagliari!







So I am taking the time, finally, to write about my trip this past weekend to Cagliari, Sardinia (Sardegna in Italian). I booked the trip about three weeks ahead of time, sort of spontaneously, which is a little out of character for me! I really wanted to take advantage of my free weekends though, so I went ahead and did it. Up until the week before I was trying to get a feel for what there was to do, how to get around, restaurants and so on. I was also in touch with the B&B where I had made reservations, which was helpful and comforting. I asked how to use public transportation to get to the B&B, and at a certain point Antonio, who runs the B&B with his wife, offered to pick me up since there had been problems with flooding on the streets earlier in the week. I wasn't really sure what to do at first (and yes, it did occur to me that I was taking a ride from someone I'd never met), but the B&B had very good reviews and seeing as how it was a business and I wasn't confident in taking the buses, I decided to accept the offer.

Since I was flying out of Pisa and needed to take a train first, I had to get up really early on Friday morning. I had the choice of taking a train that would get me to the airport about 2 hours ahead (departing at 6:30) or about 1 hour ahead (departing at 7:30). I decided to opt for the 6:30 train to give myself some room to breathe with time. I got up at an "ungodly hour" as Kristin would say, got myself ready and headed to the station. Upon arriving, I noticed that something was wrong - the boards with all the train information were still listing the very first trains of the morning, not the trains that were actually supposed to be leaving. My first thought was that there could be a strike, so I tried to figure out if trains were actually leaving. I heard some announcements but they weren't really clear. I wasn't sure at first if I should actually buy a ticket or try to take a Terravision shuttle to the airport (another option that costs slightly more). I had about 20 minutes of time to spare, but I spent so much of it trying to figure out what was going on and what to do. Eventually I did buy the ticket and I found a place in the station where the announcements were a little clearer. I heard my train being announced but then when it said "Binario...." I didn't hear the number - darn it. At this point I had very little time before the train was supposed to leave. Finally I asked a Trenitalia employee, and first he tried to check his phone/Blackberry thing, then he checked the posted signs with the general train information for every day. What I hadn't realized before is that the platform (binario) is posted there as well. He told me the binario, and I ran off to try to find the train, as there was very little time left and it was about to leave. When I got there, I asked someone else on the train if it was going to Pisa, and he said yes. Then I realized, oh no, I forgot to validate my ticket. On regional trains above all, you have to stamp your ticket in this yellow machines in the stations in order to validate them - and you can get fined if you don't. One of the conductors saw me on the platform and told me I should get on the train - I sort of desperately waved my ticket and said I hadn't validated it, but he told me to get on the train anyhow and implied that it would be okay. I got on the train and headed back toward the conductor, slightly worried but hoping it would turn out alright. Eventually (after we started moving) he signed off on my ticket as a way of manually validating it. I sat down for the ride and finally was able to relax - I had made the train. There was definitely more stress involved than I would have liked... but I made it nonetheless. I still don't know what was going on with the information boards, but oh well, that's Italy for you.

The rest of the trip went smoothly. I got to the airport, checked in, and did security with plenty of time to spare. The flight left on time and wasn't too long. I couldn't really look out the window since there was thick cloud cover, so I occupied myself by reading a magazine. When I got to Cagliari, Antonio was there with a sign reading "Kathryn Weatherby" on it, so I sort of waved, and we headed off toward the car. On the ride to the B&B, he told me his daughter owns another in Cagliari proper, while he and his wife ran the one in their house in Capoterra, a nearby town. He also talked about how there had been bad flooding that week - I could see the evidence as we rode over the bridge that divides the ocean from the lagoon on the inland side of the road. I had heard that the lagoon is a habitat for many flamingos, and sure enough, there they were! Friday the weather was still cloudy and threatening rain, and I found myself wondering how much I would be able to enjoy the trip if the weather was like that all weekend.

When we arrived in Capoterra, Antonio showed me the two bus stops, the shopping area, a few restaurants, and how I would get to the house from the bus. It really was quite small without a ton of amenities. I think I knew that the B&B wasn't in Cagliari proper, but I hadn't realized how isolated it felt in the town. Either way, I just decided to make the best of it. At the end of the car ride I arrived at the house and Antonio showed me around, including the room where I was staying. The way the situation worked out, it felt very much like I traded my Florentine family for a Sardinian one for the weekend. There was no real division between where my room was and the rest of the house, and throughout the weekend (but especially that first afternoon), I watched TV with Antonio and his wife Simona, read their magazines, petted their cats, and borrowed their computer to check Facebook, e-mail, and the dismal results of the Army-Navy football game.

The other thing that made it so much like my situation here in Florence is that Antonio and Simona were so generous - to a degree that I would never really expect just staying at a B&B. I was essentially an adopted daughter for the weekend. For instance, on Friday afternoon I walked to the beach near Capoterra and explored the small shopping center a bit, but then I came home as it was raining and I had exhausted everything I could do there. A little while later Antonio and Simona invited me to come with them while they shopped for Christmas plants and decorations. So I rode with them to a large warehouse full of plants, plant containers, and various decorations. They loaded up on poinsettias while I wandered around the store (though I was also in a tired funk as I'd gotten up at 5 am!)

Also, I knew that dinner wasn't really included with the stay, but I was going to have to walk out to one of the pizzerias in town, which would hopefully be open, in the rain, and it seemed much more comfortable and natural to eat dinner there at the house. I waited for Simona to ask me though, and made sure it was definitely okay. I felt sort of bad but she was relatively insistent - and it was true that compared to how uncomfortable it would have been for me to go get dinner elsewhere, it wasn't that much trouble for Simona to feed me as well.

Accepting generosity is interesting. Especially on Friday, I felt this mix of awkwardness and gratitude for everything Antonio and Simona were doing for me. At dinner they made the point that they were especially inclined to help me out since I was on my own, and it was low season. This was true, but it was humbling to realize how much worse things could have been had they not been so helpful.

That first night at dinner, Simona made spaghetti with a pesto which included tomatoes, which was delicious, and some cooked vegetables - mushrooms and greens (possibly spinach or something related). Over dinner I discussed many subjects with them - politics, history, cultures, with of course a comparative US-Italian point of view. This is a type of conversation I often end up having here, but of course it was new and interesting to hear their opinions. Antonio seemed to be struck by my interest in all those things (history and politics mostly), and also with my knowledge and interest in the various cuisines of Italy.

I also brought up something I had heard about before my trip, from my Uncle Michael. Basically there is a kind of cheese called casu marzu produced in Sardinia, which is allowed to start decomposing, essentially. Even MORE interesting is the fact that there are larvae digesting and decomposing the cheese, which are often still IN the cheese when it is consumed. I brought this up with Federico before I left for my trip, and he said he'd had it before - and that the worms sometimes jump and fly out of the cheese! He definitely got some pleasure out of sharing that fact with me. Antonio and Simona also confirmed the existence of this cheese, and from what they said it sounds like its quite popular. I think it isn't really exported much, for obvious reasons, but there you have it. I didn't really seek out this cheese, as sea urchin was about as adventurous as I wanted to get on this trip (see below).

The first day ended up feeling sort of like a retreat - as I had a lot of time to think, I didn't do very much, and possibly most importantly, I was off the computer for most of the day. I could definitely feel the renewing effect of a change of scenes.

Saturday was my big "explore Cagliari" day and I was lucky enough to have beautiful weather - sunny skies with friendly clouds and moderate temperatures. I took the regional bus into Cagliari, which was about a 20 minute ride. As I left the bus station, I was met by Piazza Matteotti, the port, and Via Roma, which is the main thoroughfare along the port. Via Roma was impressive in that its architecture seemed very Victorian and was visually striking. I started off by wandering through some of the streets just beyond Via Roma, locating a few restaurants that were recommended by my guidebook and just taking in the atmosphere. That particular neighborhood had the old Europe, narrow street feel I like, but with an especially Mediterranean twist - new colors, new types of architecture, and maybe also just the way the light streamed in between the buildings - I am not sure if I can really put my finger on it.

After that initial exploration, I walked up a major street called Largo Felice to Piazza Yenne, which featured a statue of king Carlo Felice. This might be a good place to point out that Cagliari (and Sardinia) today shows various influences of the powers that dominated it through history - among them the Spanish and the Pisans. Even further back, the Phoenicians and Romans inhabited the island (if I am not mistaken). On the whole, while Cagliari was definitely Italian, I could certainly see some Spanish influences that one doesn't come across in Tuscany.

After Piazza Yenne, I walked down Via Manno which is a hotspot for shopping. It was Saturday and plenty of people were out window shopping and browsing. Reaching the end of Via Manno brought me to Bastione San Remy, one of the main sights I knew I had to see. Bastione San Remy was constructed in the early 1900s, and on top there is a large platform/open area with a great view of the city and surrounding areas. Looking back, I would say Bastione San Remy was one of my favorite places in Cagliari. Once I reached the top, I took plenty of photos and took some time to enjoy the beautiful weather. Then I climbed a few more steps and set off into the Castello district, which is the most historical in Cagliari and houses the Duomo. The difference in atmosphere between Castello and the area below was amazing - Castello was so much quieter, clearly more residential, and had none of the commercialism and restaurants I had seen just a few minutes before. That made it sort of neat to walk around and discover all the little streets of Castello. Soon enough I came upon the Duomo, which was made all in white stone with 3 mosaics over each of the three doors. Apparently it was made in the Pisan style, which I could recognize also by its similiarity to the Duomo in Lucca (which is close to Pisa). I entered the church very quickly, but heard people talking about the time and closing it, so I left almost as quickly as I entered. It's too bad though, because from what I saw there was an incredible amount of detail and decoration inside - I would have liked more time to take it all in, but what can you do?

After exploring Castello a bit more, I headed back down to search out some lunch. I went to Trattoria Gennargentu, which was recommended by my guidebook. I tried to wait as long as I could to head in, but I was the first one there anyway (at about 1 pm). Luckily I didn't feel too awkward - I think the way the waitress acted helped. As time passed, the restaurant filled up rather rapidly, so within 30 minutes it was hopping with customers. I knew I wanted to eat local if possible, which for me meant trying one of Sardinia's seafood specialties. I asked the waitress which types of pasta were local specialties that would be good, and she mentioned the spaghetti with sea urchin, saying they were in season. I went with that option - intrigued at the chance to be a little adventurous and try sea urchin, which I've never had before. I also let her coax me into ordering a "quarto" of the house white wine along with my water, and I was pleased with that decision when I got to taste the wine. The sea urchin pasta dish was tasty - I am not sure how to describe the taste of sea urchin - perhaps slightly fatty with a hint of seafood and something a little sweet too. It wasn't very strong, but it definitely gave the pasta some flavor. Overall the dish was savory and slightly oily, but all in a good way. It wasn't amazingly beautiful to look at, but that went with the style of the restaurant - familiar and casual (and friendly to my wallet).

I was excited when I saw "sebadas" on the dessert list - something Lucia had told me to try when she heard I was going to Cagliari. At that point I knew the dessert somehow incorporated cheese and honey, it sounded intriguing, and I am all about sampling local specialties! I ordered the dish after I'd finished my pasta, and the waitress went off. And I waited... and I waited... and then she stopped by and told me it was on its way... and then I waited... and then she came back and said they didn't have sebadas. WHAT? You don't have the local specialty on your menu and you let me get excited for it for that long before you come back and tell me you don't have any? Thanks... I ordered a panna cotta instead, but I have had that before (when I made it at home) and she just didn't understand how my heart was set on sebadas. Sigh. The panna cotta was good though - it had a berry sauce drizzled on top. Considering I was alone, I spent a long time in the restaurant, mostly waiting for my fantasy sebadas. I emerged about 2 hours after I'd entered, full of sea urchin, panna cotta, and wine but disappointed by the lack of sebadas.

From the guidebooks, I was aware of a good beach just outside Cagliari called Poetto Beach, which is very popular in summer. I'd thought I wouldn't have time to go see it, but as I had seen much of the city by the afternoon and I was curious, I went ahead and decided to go out to the beach while it was still light outside. I figured out which line to take, scoped out the next departure and bought some tickets. 20 minutes later, I was getting off the bus on the street near the beach. I walked for a little while then found a path to the beach itself.

This trip made me realize even more than before that some of the things I like most about the beach are very enjoyable even in low season. The sound of the waves, the sprawling stretch of sand, the breeze, the sun (on a good day) and so on - I really loved Poetto Beach for all those reasons. I took a passeggiata (a walk), took some photos, and enjoyed the atmosphere. Despite the low season timing, the beach was active in a few ways - others walking along like me, some playing beach sports, and plenty of boats out on the water. One of the cool geographical features was the "Devil's Saddle" - a dip in the cliff off to the right side of the beach (facing the water). I'm very glad I saw Poetto Beach, even if it wasn't summer/swimming time.

When I got back to Cagliari itself, I noticed that the sun was going down and realized the sunset over the mountains would probably be beautiful - and I was struck with the idea to head back up to Bastione San Remy to watch it. As the sun was already sinking, I found myself racing time on the uphill trek to Bastione San Remy, topped off by the stairs to get to the very top. In the end though, I made it and I was able to enjoy the sunset. The light was beautiful, along with the way the clouds were tinted blue and purple. Also, I noticed all these birds flying around in twisting and undulating formations - they were suddenly very active at sunset. That provided another thing to watch and observe. I stayed there til the sun went down, and a bit after, and then descended back down. At this point, I was getting tired and almost ready to head back to Capoterra, but I wanted to have dinner in Cagliari. This provided an interesting dilemma, because anything before 8 pm in Italy is considered early, and yet it was about 5 or so when I hit this point. I went down to the port to kill some time, and watched the fountain and the port for a little while, enjoying the promenade area next to the water. Slightly before 6, I was getting tired of killing time, so I headed up to a place I knew would be open - Antico Caffe, near Bastione San Remy. I was unsure if I could actually get substantial food but decided to chance it. I asked if I could get one of the primi (first courses) advertised and my waiter gave me that look like "it's not dinnertime" and said not right now - but they could get me an appetizer plate with mozzarella di bufala and prosciutto. Okay.

This was one of the times I felt the effect of Italian mealtimes most strongly so far here. I have become more habituated to dinner at 8 pm or later, but in this case circumstance was creating my desire to eat at the ghastly early hour of 6. It's funny, I seem to remember a place called the United States where 6 pm is a very common time to eat dinner - where when my family set 6:30 as the normal eating time, it was later than a lot of other families. Interesting. That is not reality at all here though, so I made dinner out of some (very delicious) mozzarella di bufala and prosciutto, resigned to the fact that I was making myself obvious as an outsider. I then asked if they had sebadas, but alas it was not to be, so I had a canoli instead. Well, canolo in the singular... and I did restrict myself to one. I also got a post-dinner caffe macchiato to restore some of my Italian eating customs and called it a night. I made my way back to the bus station and waited for the departure of the 7:30 bus, after killing some more time at the port first.

For the first part of the weekend, I was very unsure of what I'd do on Sunday, especially if the weather was less than optimal. Yup - *I* was leaving a decision like that until the last minute. And guess what - it turned out okay! The weather was actually quite nice again on Sunday, so I decided to go back to Cagliari in search of a yummy lunch and a bit more excitement. After I arrived back in the city, I wandered around some more, and went back up to Bastione San Remy and Castello in an attempt to see the Duomo on the inside again. Alas, I was able to get in but quickly realized there was mass or something similar going on, so I left quickly once more.

When lunchtime came, I realized that finding an open restaurant might not be easy to find, so I was keeping my eyes open for possibilities. Eventually I went toward a restaurant I'd read about online, a wine bar called Eno. Victory! It was open! And when I got there, there were already other customers seated. Double victory! I also liked the atmosphere/decor, and there was a TV - handy for solo diners like myself.

Since I knew I wouldn't get dessert, I decided to order an appetizer. I ended up choosing roasted pecorino, which sounded better hypothetically than it was. It was definitely good, but as it amounted to some heated/melted cheese, it was somewhat heavy and fatty and left me feeling sort of gluttonous. For wine, I decided to order something a bit more fancy than the house wine (though that would have been good) and went for one of the cheapest by the glass options - a wine called Argiolas Selegas, local to Sardinia. I very much enjoyed it, though I feel like I'd be able to describe it better if my palette for wine were more developed. I very much enjoy noticing the differences between and tastes of various wines, but considering that I am not even of legal drinking age in my native country, I haven't had much chance yet to experience many types of wine. In time, I suppose.

For my main course, I ordered a dish called "fregola ai frutti di mare". I had to ask the waitress was fregola was - it was a type of pasta. It had me a bit confused at first, as it made me think of strawberries. Strawberries with seafood? I don't know... but the word for strawberry is fragola, with an A, so I was safe. I definitely enjoyed the dish - fregola are very small pieces of pasta, and they were mixed with a tomato-based sauce and pieces of seafood - some types of fish, a couple shrimp, and some mussels. Yum.

I was very satisfied with the lunch - on its own it merited the second trip into Cagliari. For the rest of the afternoon, I think I walked around, went down the port again, and wandered through the Villanova (Spanish influenced) district. It was interesting, but really quiet (I think because it was Sunday afternoon) so I didn't stay very long. Eventually I headed back to Capoterra, right around sunset, and spent the rest of the evening at the house/B&B. Sort of like the other night, I offered to go out and get my own dinner, but accepted Simona's offer to eat there, admitting that it would be more convenient (along with profuse thanks). That night she made rabbit with vegetables and mashed potatoes.

Also, at Eno, Sebadas was on the menu but I didn't opt for it, because I had mentioned my unsuccessful search to Antonio and Simona, and of course being them they offered to procure some sebadas for me for Sunday night. So the rabbit an mashed potato dinner was capped off with sebadas... finally. And it was good. It was basically a flat pastry filled with melted cheese, smothered with honey and heated up. It was very yummy. I realize that cheese and honey may not sound like the best combination, but I really enjoy it. In Florence I've also had pieces of normal temperature pecorino drizzled with honey.

That night I watched TV (by the fire!) with Antonio and Simona, packed up most of my stuff, and then went to bed. Oh yes, that reminds me, when Antonio picked me up on Friday, he had just picked up a huge batch of clementines, and then Simona was feeding them to me throughout the weekend, haha. They were very sweet and delicious. Also, breakfast was good each morning - Simona would make me a cappuccino, and lay out a plethora of options, my favorite of which was multigrain toast with butter. In Firenze, the family usually only has white bread, so it was nice to enjoy some crunchy hearty bread for a change. And buttered toast is one of my favorite simple pleasures in life, so it was just good all around.

Come Monday morning, I was definitely ready to head back to Firenze, but very glad about the decision I'd made to make the trip to Cagliari. The change of scenery was really reinvigorating and allowed me to sort of refocus on these next few weeks and everything coming up. I really enjoyed the sunsets, the natural beauty, the beaches, and of course meeting a wonderful nice couple like Antonio and Simona.

Everything for the trip back went smoothly - and the sky was crystal clear so I got to see the rest of Sardinia, Corsica, Elba, the mountains in northern Italy, and I think maybe even the Leaning Tower during the flight to Pisa! It was really cool, especially since I recognized a lot of what I saw from maps. Once I got back, I was happy to be back in my Firenze room, on my Firenze bed, and I quickly uploaded all my photos - which you can see on Picasa. As you saw, there is a sample at the beginning of this entry.

This week, I am taking care of some Christmas related things, trying to really make progress on the work I need to do for my exam Tuesday, and getting ever more excited for David to arrive in about a week and a half. These next few days I really need to put in some academic work, but I think the time pressure will kick me into gear, so to speak. In fact, now I am going to end this ridiculously long blog in order to get some more work done. Hopefully you enjoyed my stories! Til next time!

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Arezzo, An Anecdote, and Academics

Pappardelle (type of pasta) with cinghiale (wild boar)


Piazza Grande - it's in a scene in La Vita e Bella (Arezzo is Roberto Benigni's hometown)


A rainy (but festive) day in Arezzo

Yes... alliteration!

Anyway, this is the post I have been meaning to write since I went to Arezzo on Saturday, I am finally devoting the time necessary to share it with all of you, and I am going to tack a couple other things on afterward.

I had been vaguely intending to go to Arezzo for a while, but finally got myself together to do it last Saturday. Since Arezzo is actually one of the towns for which there is NOT a map in my amazing guidebook (a gift from Alexandra!) I took some notes and drew a crude map off Google Maps with the things I was thinking of visiting, and even put them into a nice little loop that I would do. As a sidenote, I have yet to print off anything at all since I have been here in Florence... I am not even sure where I would go to do it, but I'd find a way if I really really had to. Armed with my hand drawn map and the information in my guidebook, I made my way to the train station and bought my ticket. The train ride was quite easy, about 1.5 hours. I vaguely had the intention to read on the way there - but instead I stared out the window and listened to music (some of it Christmas songs!) on my iPod. It was much more fun that way, and I was in a happy place in my mind.

The historic center of Arezzo is very close to the train station, and I just headed on in after I got off the train since I had a mental map of the town in mind already. I did stop at the tourist office to get one of their maps first - but at the end of the day I hadn't referenced it at all. What happened was, I started the loop I had planned, but then found myself taken with window displays, with taking pictures of the streets, with thinking "oh, that street looks cool, I want to go that way." Rather than following my plan, I did hit most of the sites I had selected, but in a different order and in more of a wandering fashion. I also discovered this pretty cool park near the Duomo with a view of the countryside, and as I left the park the bells of the Duomo rang signaling noon, and it was loud and long and really cool. It rained on and off for most of the time I was there, but I didn't really mind it so much. It added to the atmosphere, and it didn't seem too "sad" because there were Christmas decorations and people shopping everywhere. I rather enjoyed it actually, except for having to awkwardly hold my umbrella on my arm when I wanted to take a picture.

So right, I had a lovely time meandering and wandering from one place to another. When I went in one church, called Maria Pieve or something to that effect, some others were exiting and at first it seemed like I was the only one inside. I could hear every one of my footsteps reverberating through the entire church, it was very eerie and cool. I also really liked the Duomo in Arezzo, it was on top of a hill and very impressive, both inside and out.

For lunch I went to a small restaurant recommended by my guidebook. I got there sort of early. I should have known not to go in before 12:30-1 (when lunch usually starts here), but I was hungry, I was near the restaurant, and I had done almost everything I wanted to do. I went in and got a table, and off the chalkboard listing wines by the glass, ordered a glass of Sangiovese which is red, and was good (and had a good price at only 2 euros). I knew I wanted to eat local, and I'd read that sauces made with wild boar were local to the area, so I chose pasta with a sauce of "cinghiale". I very much enjoyed the dish, the sauce was red, and the meat was much like other meat I have had in the past. I got a lot of satisfaction out of eating local. During my main meal I was debating dessert, as they listed their desserts as homemade, but they'd cost another 4 euros. Well, I finished my pasta and wasn't *entirely* stuffed, and I still had a decent amount of wine to finish, so I said what the heck and ordered some tiramisu. I am really glad I did because it was DELICIOUS! I like almost all the tiramisu I eat, as a rule, but this was especially creamy and rich and lovely. That was a good decision I made.

After lunch, I felt quite satisfied with my day so I walked around only a little bit more and then went home. One of the joys of my daytrips by myself is I get to decide my schedule on a whim, it is really quite liberating. As was having my carefully drawn out plan on a map, then not following it at all. For those of you who know me well, you realize this is a bit of an evolution for me.

The Anecdote: As I may have mentioned before, each month I buy a bus pass which covers me riding the bus all month. Well, December arrived so fast that Monday morning it slipped my mind that I needed to buy another pass. I was on my way to the train station to buy tickets for my time with Dave over Christmas, and realized the whole pass thing along the way. I decided to just keep my eyes out for people checking tickets and stayed on the bus. Of course I was really paranoid because the fine is so high, so at a certain point I ended up just getting off and walking the rest of the way - which wasn't too bad really. I told myself to get the monthly pass after I got the train tickets.

I was sort of nervous to get the train tickets, but everything ended up going fine. I knew trains would be busy during the Christmas season and I'd been intending to take care of that purchase for a while, so I was REALLY excited after I accomplished that! I stopped at the ATM to get some cash and merrily went on my way toward the library. I even managed to hop right on a bus that was heading that way, without waiting. Only to realize, darn, I STILL didn't buy the pass. I got off at the next stop, ever annoyed with myself, and just walked to the library, *stopping along the way to finally buy the pass*. Good. Skip ahead some. I realized after looking at my November pass that I had never validated it, which you are supposed to the first time you use it. It just never occurred to me and sat in my wallet all month. I think I either didn't get checked at all in November, or if I did get checked once, the guy didn't care that it wasn't validated. When I got on the bus to come home, I made sure to validate the pass and then put it in the outside pocket of my laptop bag.

Skip to the next day. I wasn't taking my computer out with me, so I transferred my stuff from my laptop bag to the purse. All the essentials - wallet, cell phone, keys, etc. Well etc didn't include the bus pass which I had forgotten to put in its proper place in my wallet. I managed to forget that until I was on a bus, ha. As annoying as it was, I didn't want to have to be paranoid all day, so I went back home to retrieve the pass. I went back and forth on whether to even go downtown before class, and decided I did have enough time for lunch before heading back toward class (which is sort of near where I live). I got on the bus downtown, and right before my stop.... *building suspense* I got asked to show my ticket (which remember, hadn't happened in about a month at least). I had to chuckle to myself as I took my pass out of my wallet to show to the man checking. I just found it all too ironic that I got checked, but also felt very justified in all my paranoia/time wasting. What I kept telling myself was "if you ride without the pass it WILL be the day they check..." and that is why I took the trouble to go back and get it. And I was vindicated! That was a long anecdote, but hopefully a humorous look into my trivial everyday issues. I am happy to tell you that now the pass is safely in my wallet, and I never forget to take my wallet anywhere. Peace of mind once again!

Academics: I have been trying without avail for the past few weeks to register online for my two Scienze Politiche exams - one of which I already did but for some reason I need to go on the official day to make the grade official... please don't ask me to explain more than that, because I can't. Anyway, I had the right website but could never find my classes. For one of the categories where they might be, it said there were no exams available for online registration. I kept trying and trying (since my professors had said to sign up), but nothing. First I asked my tutor via e-mail, and he said to check in building D5 at the campus, so I took a day to go back out there even though I don't have class there anymore. The woman in D5 didn't know anything and said to go to another office, but I was too nervous at that point and ended up asking Lucia. Lucia got in touch with the office for foreign students, and told me to go and talk to Veronica there. I did that today, and Veronica saw that my exams weren't up on the site, and called an office over at the facolta. Apparently they had been getting plenty of calls about the same issue, and Veronica took down the name of ANOTHER person who apparently would know what was going on. I think she tried to call her but it didn't work, so she gave me the advice to call this woman, ask if the exam slots will be up online soon, and if they won't within the near future, to e-mail my professors. Apparently it is not ESSENTIAL that I sign up, but if I am officially registered online, my grade will automatically go into the system - where as if I am not officially signed up, it will sit on some secretary's desk to be manually entered, and it would possibly be more difficult to get my grades and the official record. While I wish things were resolved by now, I am really grateful that Veronica was so helpful and I feel like I have made a bit of progress. The weird thing is, I am not THAT phased by it, and certainly not shaken or upset, despite the fact that quite frankly this bureaucracy and navigating it is kind of ridiculous. I take heart in knowing that this experience with going through various offices and having issues and having to work them out is preparing me for Life and the Real World. And my Life and Real World are likely to be in English! Even better!

That pretty much concludes everything I wanted to write... it is certainly a sampling but a good one I think. I am almost ready for my trip to Cagliari - I leave Friday morning and will be there through Monday. I have been in touch via e-mail with a man at the B&B where I have reservations, and that makes me feel much more comfortable.

In addition to the photos above, I am about to put some more on Picasa. If you need a link please let me know.

Sending you all my love,

Kate

Friday, November 28, 2008

Ringraziamento e piu

Well, I have officially celebrated my first (and possibly only?) expat Thanksgiving ever. I am happy with the amount of celebrating I got to do here, but I did feel nostalgic for Thanksgiving a la Connecticut and look forward to doing that again starting next year!

My first Thanksgiving dinner was Wednesday night, at Georgetown's Villa le Balze, where they run a semester abroad program for Georgetown students. I am sure I've mentioned Bridie and the villa before... if I haven't let me know. Anyway, both my Italian family and Lucia were invited as well. I went up to the villa with Lucia in her car, as the family's night was a bit more hectic and with Lucia I wouldn't have to wait as much. We got there during the cocktail hour so I chatted with Bridie and a few of the Georgetown students I know. Also, a man from Georgetown (not sure exactly who he was) announced that he had brought some Georgetown basketball T-shirts for us. For those of you who are not Hoyas, every year basketball season ticket holders get a gray T-shirt, which we wear to every game. It is almost the same each year except the saying changes. The man said there were enough shirts for all the students and faculty at the villa, which I realized would not technically include me, but I went ahead and took a shirt anyway since it seemed appropriate. All the while I knew Kristen would be really jealous, because she is way more of a rabid fan than I am and has been feeling more deprived missing the basketball season. The happy ending is, at the end of the night there were more shirts left, and I intuitively knew the right thing to do was to grab another shirt for Kristen. So as she knows, I have it ready for the next time I see her!

As for the rest of the night, once the cocktail hour was over we all went to be seated. This dinner was huge - about 60 people! There are 23 students at the villa this semester, but when you add me, family, friends, staff, and faculty, that is what you get. Everything was very elegant and impressive, and by the time we were sitting down Cristina, Federico, and Lisa had made it up to the villa. I sat next to Lucia and Bridie, and just on the other side of Bridie were Lisa, Cristina, and Federico. Three of the Georgetown students were there at the table with us too, but over dinner it was hard to keep them included in conversation a lot, since we were mostly speaking Italian. Bridie and Lucia hadn't seen each other yet this year so it seemed like it was nice for them to catch up.

The dinner started with a pretty good salad, I think it may have had pomegranate seeds or something. Lucia asked me if that was a typical Thanksgiving thing but I had to be honest and shrug - "I've never seen it before, but sure." For the main meal, there was stuffing (with chestnuts), turkey, sweet potatoes, and broccoli. It was alright, but honestly not up to normal Thanksgiving standards. I couldn't really quarrel with it though, making dinner for 60 people is not easy at all. Plus the fact that you couldn't really get seconds took away from the Thanksgiving effect, ha. Also, there was only one small dish of cranberry sauce, and it was clearly more of a condiment than anything else. I had to refrain from taking a lot in order to be polite, and so I really wasn't able to enjoy it as much as usual.

In any case, I very much enjoyed the conversation and the company. And then dessert! We were served pumpkin pie AND pecan pie with whipped cream. It was definitely the best part of the meal. After dinner we got up to get some coffee, and then me, the family, Lucia, and Bridie ended up talking with one of the Italian professors in a room with a grand piano, about Italy and academics and the such. At first Lisa was playing around on the piano with Federico, but when she got bored the Italian professor went and played a few songs - he was really good! Lisa seemed quite enamored of his playing as well, which was cute. After a while talking, it was definitely getting late and Lisa was tired so we headed out. I went back in the car with the family, and I had this sudden, very, well, familial feeling. I had only ever been in the car with Federico before (and briefly) but this was instead us returning home after a night out, with Lisa sitting next to me falling asleep. It was just sort of nice to be part of the family group for the evening. I was also just really glad in general to have shared the dinner with my Italian family.

The next night, last night, on actual Thanksgiving, I went over to the house of Lucia's friend Lynette, who is American and moved to Florence recently I think. Everyone else at the party was Italian, mostly people Lucia knew. It was a little bit awkward to meet everyone and be so new, but they were all very nice. There were a total of 11 of us there. I definitely enjoyed the food Lynette prepared, there was turkey, and stuffing (with spinach and corn in it), delicious mashed potatoes, green beans with garlic, some good bread. She forgot to put the cranberry sauce out but we had it as an interlude between dinner and dessert. Like I said I enjoy cranberry sauce by itself, so it was no problem for me. All the Italians there really liked it - they don't have cranberries here so it was very new to them. Cranberries are so foreign that there isn't really even a translation in Italian (as there is for strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, etc). Then for dessert there was an apple cake, pumpkin pie, AND tiramisu! We were definitely not short on dessert. The conversation about the pie struck me as funny though - Lynette showed everyone the can of pumpkin pie mix she used to make the pie filling, and the one man who was there was like, "Oh, I could make pie out of a real pumpkin, it would be so easy!" I was thinking to myself, oh Italians, they want to make everything from fresh ingredients, but they just don't understand that that's the way it's DONE - you buy the can of Libby's, put in all the spices and the condensed milk, and voila, delicious pie. :-)

One of the most interesting things about last night's dinner was how I could sort of see Thanksgiving from the outside perspective - much like how I have been seeing the US ever since I got here. I found myself explaining the original legend of the Pilgrims to them, as they were wondering where the holiday came from. Before dinner I was also explaining the concept of stuffing to one of Lucia's friends.

It was definitely a different Thanksgiving from any I have ever had before, in part because I went to class yesterday! But at the end of the day, I enjoyed the company of friends and adopted family, and was able to connect to people at home as well. Yesterday I Skyped with Dave and his extended family at his grandma's house in Western CT, which was definitely nice and funny (hearing the typical family banter via Skype). It is really a wonder of technology that I got to sort of "hang out" in the living room there for a little while. Both his grandma and grandpa (after arriving) asked, "Is Kate live on the computer?" upon learning that I was on Skype. After I got home from dinner, I Skyped with my parents as well, which was very important considering I would have been home with them if I were in the US right now. So right, by way of conclusion, I am glad I found ways to celebrate over here, and ways to share Thanksgiving traditions and joy with the Italians I know, but I am really looking forward to being home next year for the holiday, and re-commencing my yearly rituals of cranberry sauce from the can (copious amounts), Pepperidge Farm stuffing that is pretty simple but delicious and disappears quickly, and most importantly, time with family.

There were lots of birthdays this past week. Bridie's birthday was actually last Thursday, I wrote about Lisa's which was last week, and I also have to share that David (my boyfriend, in case anyone doesn't know) turned 21 on Monday, November 24! I was fortunate enough to be able to talk to him even though he had a lot of schoolwork to do, and it was good to share a small part of the special day with him.

Having another mild case of academic maneuvering issues this week. I need to register online to get the official grade for the exam I already took, and to take the exam for my other Scienze Politiche class. However, I have not succeeded at finding the site on the website so I am trying various channels of help and advice to try to solve the problem... I'll keep you updated on how that goes. I am also trying to really dig into the small research project I have to do for that upcoming exam - an overview/analysis of American diplomacy at the Paris Peace Conference (post WWI). I have tried to ascertain from my professor through e-mail exactly what his expectations are for my written piece resulting from the research, but I haven't exactly gotten that yet... guess I'll have to keep trying as the process continues.

Today in Firenze, it is raining, which got me thinking about how maneuvering yourself when getting around here can be a bit of an art form. The first example is the bus, which I take almost every day getting from one place to another. There are three doors on the bus: front, middle, back. The ideal situation is that passengers board the bus in the front and back and get off in the middle. This means that when the bus is at all crowded, you need to try to get toward the middle of the bus as your stop approaches, otherwise people might be in your way and you run the risk of not having enough time to push past them all before the door shuts. You can often get away with getting on in the middle or off in the front or back, but if the driver knows that people are either only getting on or only getting off, he might not open the door. Basically that means that you can be in for a rude awakening if you are waiting to get off in the back and he only opens the center door. It's very interesting that way. Also, generally it's not a problem, but when the bus approaches a stop where you're waiting, it's safer to extend your arm out as a way of signaling that you want the bus to stop. If no one is getting off and no one else signals, the bus driver technically might not stop. Maybe this isn't very interesting to all of you, but these are the trivial realities of my every day life.

The other art form is getting around on the sidewalks. Since many sidewalks in Firenze are little more than glorified curbs, it is hard enough getting around on your average day (getting past people coming in the other direction, going around people who are walking too slowly, dodging out of the way of motorinos, taxis, bicycles, and buses), but a rainy day adds a very interesting variable to the equation - umbrellas (ella ellas, Dave and Kristen). On my way here I had to be constantly aware of the people walking in my direction, so I could either move to the side, where there was space, elevate my umbrella above theirs so they wouldn't hit each other, or something of that sort. Then when the bus went by (the street is JUST wide enough for the bus to hit) I became acutely aware that the side mirror on the bus was probably closer to my umbrella than I might have expected. Like I said, you have to be on your toes. There is just not enough space for two directions of foot traffic, umbrellas included. So we all end up doing this little dance to avoid hitting each other, and it partly annoys me and partly amuses me.

Alright, considering I've reached the point in the blog where I am analyzing how I walk on the sidewalk, I think I'll close for now. Weirdly enough, I only have one week of philosophy class left, a week of nothing (except working on my own) and then that exam I mentioned before. The weekend after that exam it will be almost Christmas, and Dave will be arriving in Italy! I can't believe my halfway point is already almost here... and yet I also can believe it. Obviously I am really excited for his visit, but I have a lot of things on my to do list first, including organizing my itinerary for my trip to Cagliari, which is rapidly approaching (Dec 5-8) and finishing my preparations for that exam.

I hope you all had a very happy and relaxing Thanksgiving - I was thinking of you all and looking forward to quality time to be spent together in the future. Til next time!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Inverno Inizia...

My title means "Winter is Starting" and that's because for the first time here it has started to feel legitimately cold. Honestly, I kind of like it since it makes me feel a little bit more at home. Yet still, we continue to have some days that are beautiful - I am looking out my window at a blue sky right now, even though I think it is quite chilly outside.

There's quite a few things to update on... I think starting with Wednesday night. After tossing around a bunch of possibilities for movies to see, I met up with Cindy and Laura (both Swiss girls from my orientation school) to go see the movie "Changeling" - the new one with Angelina Jolie directed by Clint Eastwood. It was a little too exciting getting there, because Cristina had to make dinner for me fast (I had warned her in advance), then I had to rush out to try to make the bus, which was then late. What's more, at an intermediate stop, it basically stopped working, or at least the doors did, so we all had to get off and get in the bus right behind us (which had a similar route). To add insult to injury, I get out on the sidewalk to change buses and this guy sitting along the sidewalk in front of me just like... pukes onto the ground. What?!?! So I tried to erase my memories of that and hoped the bus would be on time. I got to the theater right before it was supposed to start but had no idea if Cindy and Laura were there. I tried to ask the woman taking tickets if she had seen people with their descriptions, and she didn't know, but she was nice enough to let me check the theater and then come back to buy a ticket. Luckily the girls were near the front, so I rushed back out to get the ticket and came back.

I enjoyed the movie, it was well done and I understood the Italian dubbing. I may watch it in English sometime though just to get the full audio performances. As much bad luck as I had with the bus getting to the theater, I had great luck getting back - I managed to find the stop I needed (which I had never been to before and only seen on the map), AND only a minute or two after I got there, the bus came - which was good because I was either going to get the 12:04 or the 12:29 and I wasn't too keen on standing out there for a good 25 minutes waiting for a bus. So in the end that worked out well.

Toward the end of this week I managed to find a couple new lunch options, which was nice. I found a sushi place, where it is a little expensive and not the best sushi ever (pre-made in those plastic containers) but after so long without sushi it is still a refreshing change. I also went back to a place I had been once with Lucia, and the woman there was so nice to me, which I always enjoy. And on Friday I went to a Mexican place I had read about online and had a burrito... yum. It was nice after so long without a quesadilla or a burrito or nachos! Those of you who know me well at all know that I very much enjoy all of those foods!

So yes, it's true, you CAN get a little sick of Italian food. Not that it's not great, and I especially am spoiled by dinners at home made by Cristina, but when you are used to pizza one meal, then Thai, then sushi, then Mexican, you sort of end up missing variety. So I am glad I have found some ways to mix it up at lunchtime.

Also on Friday afternoon, I went out looking for a gift for Lisa's birthday (which is today, Sunday). Since she likes Hello Kitty I went to a couple stores where I'd noticed various Hello Kitty products. For the most part anything cool is actually quite expensive, so I ended up buying a tin box thing with candy inside, decorated with Hello Kitty and "Happy Birthday" written on the outside. I had been wondering where I would find wrapping paper and supplies, but luckily enough the woman taking care of my purchase offered to do the wrapping, with Hello Kitty paper, and even put a nice pink ribbon on the outside. I double checked to be sure the price was the same, and she said "Oh, of course!" She seemed to think it was so quaint and unassuming of me, because she told her daughter (who also worked there) that I thought it might be extra. Her daughter replied with "Yes, but that's how they do it abroad" - obviously aware that it might be the norm to pay extra for wrapping wherever I was from. She was right, of course. So that was just a pleasant and humorous little interaction and I very much appreciated getting the gift all wrapped up for me!

I didn't end up going to Arezzo last night because I needed to sleep in and just couldn't get myself moving, but it's still there and I can go another time. I am even pondering going tomorrow, since I don't have class. Who knows, we'll see. I did make a short trip to a park I'd been to with my orientation class, and got to enjoy the river in the slightly crisp fall weather, but with the sun shining in the late afternoon, which was really nice. I also let myself indulge in some French fries from a snack stand in the park.

As I headed home, the chaos of Lisa's birthday party was imminent. She was having a sleepover with 6 friends, which isn't huge until you consider that this apartment is not that large. Chaos was pretty much inevitable. It all went pretty much par for the course - they were really loud and drove Cristina crazy, and every time she told them to be quiet it started right up again 2 seconds later. The issue is that groups that size of 9-year-old girls don't take turns talking - they talk all at the same time, and therefore the decibel level is quite impressive. For the first part of the night, I was in my room online, then I went to eat dinner (the girls all had McDonald's first then went up to watch a movie while Federico, Cristina and I had risotto that Cristina made). Actually I should pause a moment on the risotto - gorgonzola with pear! All of Cristina's risottos are good and this was no exception! Then we did the whole cake and candle thing and of course all the girls were adorable - Cristina took some pictures of all 7 of them with the cake and candles burning.

I was lucky that I had more or less the same sleeping schedule as the girls last night, otherwise I wouldn't really have been able to sleep. They woke up a couple hours before me this morning and were pretty loud, but I just laid around hiding basically, not ready to go out there and negotiate the chaos. By the time I finally emerged, some of them had left so it was less overwhelming. Also last night I started watching a movie I'd borrowed from the library - an Officer and a Gentleman, which I have never seen before. I was going to play it on my computer but wasn't sure if it would work since DVDs are coded for different regions, but finally realized, oh duh, my TV has a DVD player... so that worked out really well. I only got through part of the movie though, since it was late and I was falling asleep. I'm sure I can finish it by Friday, which is when it's due.

As chaotic as the house was when Lisa was having her party, now I'm alone since the family went out, I assume to celebrate with family. This afternoon I'll have to get lunch at some point, and I may try to go take some pictures of Florence, but after that I am going to make cookies again, since I have ingredients to use up from last time and Lisa really liked the cookies. So that should be fun!

I think that's all. I can't believe it's already almost Thanksgiving. It will be strange having class, not being with my parents, and all of that, but on Wednesday night I am going up to the villa, and my Italian family is coming (even the dog I think!), along with Lucia, so that should be fun. I'm glad I'm celebrating somehow. And starting next year it will be back to American Thanksgivings!
I should also really start getting down to business on some more academic work... we'll see how the self motivation on that goes, I'll let you know!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

All the Latest News

So this post will be somewhat miscellaneous, but there are things to write about... and so write I shall.

This morning I met my philosophy tutor, Nicola, for the first time. He is in his early 40's and apparently has a wife and 10-year-old son. He's originally from Switzerland but Swiss of Italian origin... not sure if I should explain more but I am not even sure I can. Anyway, meeting him was nice because of the way it laid out more or less what is going to happen with this course and the work for it... something I have become unaccustomed to since I started Italian classes. It seems as though I'll be able to do the exam in January, and Nicola proposed doing 12 hours of tutoring, 3 on each text, 2 on things in general, and 1 of a mock exam basically. It's so... organized and thorough! We will probably be doing most of this in January, during the weeks leading up to the exam. It makes me feel so much better to know I will have some structure when it comes to studying for this exam. Also, I gave Nicola his copies of all my readings, so we will both be reading about them and then discussing them.

Also it made me smile that my professor ended up talking about the US in philosophy class today. We were talking about the theme of community, and how the US is an example of a form of community outside natural, clan-type ties, and really it is a type of associational community (basically she meant civil society). She said Americans associate themselves for tons of reasons and named off a few examples, and I smiled because I suppose it's true in relation to Europe - I found myself thinking of the PTA, Lion's Clubs, and so on and so forth. I haven't heard about many organizations like that here, but it was never something I'd really thought about. Then later someone asked about the European Union in terms of community and she was talking about how it's kind of a weak example, and usually she feels "European" in contrast to something else... namely the America of Bush apparently. Then later she went on to say that America showed itself capable of basically re-birth, renewal, that Europe isn't capable of, referring to the election of Obama (and also the WAY in which he won the election). It was just a particularly interesting class for me because it was another opportunity to see the US as it is seen from the outside. I am really going to come back to the US with a much clearer idea of its place in the world, from all of the observations I have made here.

Lisa's birthday is this weekend, she is turning 9. I have been saying all this time that she's 9, I think because of what it said in the information I first received about the family. But alas, she was born Nov. 23, 1999 and that would make her 8/almost 9. I am planning on buying her a gift sometime this week - something Hello Kitty since she likes the brand and I've seen it in many stores. We'll see what exactly I can find. She is having a slumber party Saturday night with about 5 friends so that could be a little crazy. I think she'll have fun though.

Because I only have philosophy Tuesday through Thursday, I have been wanting to take advantage of the four-day weekend to go somewhere, so I finally booked a trip to Cagliari, Sardegna! (Sardinia in English.) In case you are unaware, Sardegna is a large Mediterranean island south of Corsica. Corsica belongs to France while Sardegna belongs to Italy, though throughout history I believe it was also Spanish, and there were Phoenicians and others there as well, so apparently the local culture/architecture has a mix of influences. Cagliari is the capital of Sardegna. I'm flying there from Pisa on Dec. 5, and staying three nights at a small hostel/B&B. I found a single for under 30 euros a night which all things considered isn't too shabby! I booked the flight and hotel at an uncharacteristically fast and spontaneous pace, so now I am figuring out, okay, I am going on this trip... what will I do when I'm there! But I think it should be fun, especially if there is decent weather. I am not sure if the water will be warm enough for swimming, but it'd be nice even just to take a nice walk along the beach! Mostly I am just happy with myself for booking a trip as I have all this free time and wanted to do something a little more exciting in the next few weeks.

In other news, the TV channel I watch most regularly with the family seems to be on a stint of younger generation oriented movies... first they showed High School Musical 1 and 2 (I won't lie, I watched HSM1), then a movie with Hilary Duff (apparently called Raise Your Voice), then Freaky Friday, which I also watched because I'd never seen it before and wanted to. It's fun, the channel shows movies quite often, usually after "La Ruota della Fortuna" (see post below) and they are pretty good. Also for the most part American... as Dave likes to say "our culture is aggressive". I also sometimes watch shows like CSI and Cold Case, dubbed in Italian, on that channel. Oh! And last night on another channel, I turned on the TV and there was Law & Order. No matter where you are, it's always on. ;-)

This Saturday I am thinking of going to Arezzo, which is a short train ride from Firenze. Apparently it is the hometown of Roberto Benigni (of Life is Beautiful fame) and parts of the movie were filmed in Arezzo and the surrounding countryside... fun Arezzo trivia!

While I feel like June is still a very long way away, Christmas is definitely in the air (more accurately the shop windows) here and that is kind of crazy... While I will have class next week on Thanksgiving, I am going to Georgetown's villa for dinner, and my family and Lucia are also coming! I don't know if I have written about Bridie, but she is a Georgetown '08 grad who stayed with my same family 2 years ago. She has come over for dinner a couple times and I have been to the villa for lunch a couple times, so that is a nice connection to have. Last time she was over at the house we made dinner, and I made oatmeal chocolate chip cookies (biscotti americani). I asked Lisa if she wanted me to make them again on her birthday with the leftover ingredients and the response was enthusiastically affirmative!

Alright, I think that is good for now... this post jumped around a lot but hopefully it was enjoyable nonetheless!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Finalmente!

Okay time to do this thing, and by this thing, I mean update my blog which I have been neglecting! Oops!

Okay so I am going to go a bit backwards - I will write about the last week and a half before I write about my amazing weekend with Kristen!

The big event of last week was my first exam in Italian, which also happened to be a final for my class, History of Italian Foreign Relations. We had the option to do the exam either in written or oral format (the majority of exams here are oral). I chose written, since at least I would have time to compose my answers and review them instead of just having to speak sensically. The exam was Thursday, Nov. 6. I had tried to up my work ethic in the weeks prior, but it hadn't happened like I hoped it would. It took the time pressure of the week of to really kick me into gear - and studying consisted of reviewing my notes, filling out basic background info using Wikipedia (okay, this guy, how many times was he prime minister and how many times was he foreign minister, and what party is he from? What exactly were the terms of the Treaty of Brussels?) along with finishing the book we had for the class. In lecture, my professor started with the post-war era (1945 basically) but she had told us that if we hadn't done a presentation (which I didn't), the exam would also cover the first part of the book - Italian unity (1860) to WWII. During the first part of last week, I had to finish the book by completing that first part. I ended up getting to WWI, and on the morning of the test I tried to fill in the gaps by reading a bit about Mussolini's foreign policy during Fascism.

But, all studying aside, I had no clue what to expect. I didn't know how general or specific the questions would be, or what was expected of me, or how easily I'd be able to write. You could definitely say I was nervous going in. The test was at 2:00 pm, and only one other student (a French girl, Muriel) was doing the written format - the other 6 students who were there that day did oral exams in the same room during the class period - talking with the professor in a hushed voice. It actually wasn't as distracting as you might think.

But before administering the oral exams, the professor wrote two questions on the board for Muriel and I. Roughly translated - 1) Foreign policy of Liberal Italy and Fascist Italy - continuities and discontinuities, and 2) Italy and the first detente (prima distensione).

My reactions were 1) Good thing I read about Mussolini's foreign policy, 2) Prima distensione.... uh.... hmmm... breathe. Luckily my professor specified that the first detente started in 1953. I remembered talk of it, but the whole sequence of Cold War events from the Italian perspective was, to be honest, a bit fuzzy. It didn't help that the early 50s were a time period we covered early on in the course - ie, my comprehension and note-taking were still on the spotty side.

I managed to think of a few good points for comparing Mussolini to what had come after the war, and wrote what I thought was a pretty good mini-essay. Oh yeah, the prof. said we had a length limit of two sides of one piece of paper, and we could divide it however we wanted. Since the first question seemed more complex, I was aiming for writing a bit more on that than the other topic. So I spent the first part of the time writing that, feeling pretty good about it. At the halfway point though, we had the "pausa" or a 15-minute break that we usually have in class (for people to get espresso and smoke basically) and Muriel said to me, by liberal Italy, she means before the war, right? And I thought about it for a second... looked at the question... and said in my head, "oh, [expletive]... she's right." So I told her yes, and panicked a bit. You see, what I should have realized from the outset was that Liberal Italy is pre-Fascist Italy, and post-Fascist Italy would be called Republican Italy. I had judged the question much too quickly, and had to pretty much do the whole thing over. I tried to remind myself to stay calm, confirmed with the professor that Liberal Italy was in fact pre-Fascist, and when she said yes I had to take another sheet of paper in order to start over. Luckily, I had plenty of time especially considering the short length limit, and I managed to pound out a decent answer to the ACTUAL meaning of question 1, and finish an adequate response for question 2. The question 2 wasn't incredibly coherent, as I tried to remember everything I knew from the time period, ended up writing a bit past it, and tried to sum up the overall big picture changes, with maybe partial success. Either way the whole thing was quite nervewracking.

Leaving, I wasn't feeling great, but I was at least relieved it was over. Overall it had gone worse than I thought it would, and I had no idea how harshly it would be graded. What I should also say here is that really all I needed to do was pass - the exact scores I get here will not enter into my GPA numerically, partially because the numbers are on different scales. They grade here up to 30, and passing is 18, so that is what I had to get. I really didn't know what the consequences would be if I failed - for instance if I could have a "do over" by doing an oral exam. (I know that would never happen in America but I could see it happening here.) I found out I would have to wait til Tuesday morning to get my grade, so I had to resolve not to think about it too much til then.

What made Thursday after the test worse was that I was coming down with a cold and not feeling great at all, and just tired and worn out from all the studying and nerves. It was a crazy experience mostly because of the uncertainty - I wouldn't have thought it would throw me off so much, but it did. Sure the subject was hard (esp without the background knowledge Italian students have and with the language barrier) but above all the uncertainty factor was making me nervous. What do they expect? What was the deal with having to sign up to officially get the grade later? Is my written Italian good enough? And so on and so forth.

Last weekend I did almost nothing. Literally. I was supposed to go on a daytrip with Lucia Saturday, but her mom had an operation on Friday and she thought it'd be better to be around in case there were complications, which I agreed with. I was enjoying taking it easy anyway, with my cold and all. I did buy some clothes on Saturday which was good, as I know have more long-sleeve options.

Monday I started in on academics again, including a small research project I have for my other political science course - History of European Identity. I am reading about the Paris Peace Conference at the end of WWI, specifically from the American perspective (my professor tailored the topics to each of us individually but they all relate to Versailles somehow). It is nice to have that to do over a period of weeks at my own pace (though who knows what I'll be saying when it is almost due...)

Yesterday was Tuesday, so I went to the Scienze Politiche "campus" in the morning. When Muriel and I saw the professor at 11, she said to come up to her office at 12 instead - though I am pretty sure last Thursday she said 11. I was nervous enough already and then we had to wait ANOTHER hour. Muriel was pretty pessimistic in that she was like, I wouldn't be surprised if I failed, and I was implicated in that since we were pretty much level in terms of how we felt about it. I had decided though that I showed that I studied and showed some knowledge, and in the US I would have passed - I just had NO CLUE about here! Muriel thought that there could be a "do-over" option, but I was still just like... ugh I really hope I passed. As it turned out, Professor Bagnato had forgotten the actual tests at home, but she remembered our grades, which let's face it, was what mattered to us. The moment of truth was fleeting - she looked at Muriel and said "25" and at me and said "27". YES! We passed! And with better grades than we might have thought. Despite the fact that yesterday was rainy and my cold was (is) still lingering... that made yesterday a good day and I feel a huge weight off my shoulders. It is a nice confidence boost that I was able to pass my first Italian exam!

For something completely different, I feel more comfortable all the time with my Italian family. It really is a blessing. I am not sure how to even describe it specifically, but the more time I am there the easier and more comfortable it is. Lately it's funny, there is this commercial for a service called "Sky" (I think it may be a premium TV channel package) and it consists of a series of people singing "Se mi lasci non vale" which means something like "If you leave me it's not worth it," but the funny thing is EVERY time it comes on Lisa (the 9-year-old) says to us, "Zitti zitti!" which means "be quiet!" because she LOVES the voice or the way this one woman toward the end of the commercial sings the line. It is sort of a deep and velvety voice, and the woman is a young woman standing out in the rain or something. It cracks the rest of us up, because every time we see it Lisa just gets this huge smile on her face and it is the cutest thing ever. Her birthday is at the end of November (Nov. 23, the day before another special birthday!) and I have been thinking of getting her something Hello Kitty, because she likes Hello Kitty. Luckily, Hello Kitty is popular here. I have been scoping out stores looking for Hello Kitty products and I have seen at least 4 or 5.

The weather finally seems to be changing to something resembling fall. After some periods of rain, last week there were also BEAUTIFUL days with blue skies and temperatures that were around 70. Even so I always wear jeans and at least a layer, because people here always overdress. It can be sunny and 70 and you will still see people in peacoats and leather jackets. It is weird, but I have adopted the mindset somewhat and dress that way too. It's almost like, well, it is fall, so we are dressing like this on principle.

To rewind, Kristen (my friend from Georgetown and likely roommate next year for those of you who don't know her!) got here on Thursday, October 30 in the afternoon. I was so excited for her trip here, and it was so fun! First thing we took the bus back to the house so she could drop her stuff, and she got to meet Federico, who was playing a videogame when we arrived. :-) As you will read in her blog, one of the first things he said was "wow, you're tall" and subsequently, Cristina (when she met Kristen) and a random security guy at the Accademia Gallery also said Kristen was tall. In case she wasn't sure, now she knows! (For reference she is 6'0" which IS tall, but Italians seem truly in awe or something.) After dropping her things, we took a loop bus ride to Piazzale Michelangelo, which is the first place Lucia took me in Florence when I got here - even before I got to the house and met Cristina for the first time. It has a gorgeous view of the city and is good to use for orientation type purposes. It didn't really turn out like I'd envisioned, as it was rainy and cloudy and rapidly getting dark (much earlier than my August visit), but Kristen enjoyed the night view. We took some pictures and took it all in, and then went home for dinner. Cristina made a yummy vegetable soup (which I'd had before) and these fried balls of dough, that I forget what they're called... something like chioccioli I think... We had them with cheese and also meat, and then also with dessert toppings like Nutella. Yum! They were addictive, but as Cristina said, something to have only once in a while since they are so heavy and fattening.

Dinner also provided the opportunity for me to share what has become a nightly routine for me with Kristen - La Ruota della Fortuna. It is a TV show which is the Italian version of Wheel of Fortune. I like it for a number of reasons. One is that it is good Italian practice. Obviously playing along and seeing all the answers and thinking about the words gets me thinking in Italian, and I learn new vocabulary because I ask Cristina and Federico what things mean when I don't understand. A couple times I have gotten the solutions before even the contestants, and I feel quite proud when that happens! Another reason I enjoy "La Ruota" is that it is sooo amusing to to watch. Above all, their "Vanna" is named Victoria, and she is Swedish, and apparently has worked in America. Her Italian is good enough, but she is always mispronouncing things and the host corrects her. I really think that sometimes she plays stupid on purpose. Also, he'll ask her questions and she just smiles and goes "uh huh..." or "siiii..." even if it isn't a yes or no question. She also wears ridiculously skimpy clothing, predictably low cut and with lots of thigh, has blown out blonde hair, big blue eyes with lots of mascara, and puffed out, glossed up lips. There are random dance breaks, usually featuring her, and camera angles from above (cleavage) and below (when she twirls around after crossing in front of the puzzle, causing her dress to flare out... yeahh). She winks and makes faces at the camera. It all sounds like SUCH a stereotype, but it's true! And I know you wouldn't believe it, but now I have Kristen's testimony to prove it! Ohhhh boy. But it is too amusing, I always wait to see what Victoria is wearing and we always laugh over the hilarity of whatever occurs on the show...

Well that was a big digression. On Friday, I had to go to class in the afternoon, so Kristen and I first stopped at my favorite sandwich shop to get some food, but to get to the bus on time (to get to school on time) we had to go RIGHT when it opened so we were hovering there, oh well. Luckily she liked her sandwich, and then when we got to school I set her up in the library to do some reading while I had class. After, in the late afternoon, we went back downtown, went inside the Duomo, and explored downtown a bit, including Via Tornabuoi, which is a who's who of expensive designers (most of them Italian). Of course I would never go into a store there, but it was fun to see all the windows. We also went to the Ponte Vecchio, which I don't see much anymore now that I don't go to my orientation school (which is across the river from downtown Firenze).

That night, we went to a vegetarian restaurant, which was confusing at first because you place your order, pay, go to a counter to get your food, and THEN sit down. Between trying to figure out if there was space, figuring out the procedure, and trying my best to translate the menu for Kristen, it was a bit hectic. But in the end it was good, we enjoyed our food and some apple cider, and it was fun. The annoying thing was that it was raining, and we had BOTH straightened our hair and decided to wear ballet flats - which seemed like a good idea at the times. I had been thinking for at least a month that I needed new flats, as the pair I brought to Italy had been wearing out since summer, but I had yet to find any that I liked at a good price. Well, that night out in the rain pretty much finished my flats, and both Kristen and I felt like we were walking around in squishy puddles most of the night (she also wore flats). After the restaurant, we went to a bar I have been to once before to get some cocktails and enjoy being 20 in a country where the official drinking age is 16 and the actual drinking age is you can buy wine at like 9 years old if you say it's for your mom...

Kristen's stomach wasn't feeling too well though, so we went home kind of early and enjoyed some more Gilmore Girls, which I have to say I didn't mind! Over the course of the weekend, as Kristen wrote, we probably got through about 8-9 episodes which was so fun. And like she wrote, I also got her addicted to the Daily Show! I have been watching it a lot online, especially with the recent election season. Let's be honest, Sarah Palin gave them LOTS of material!

Saturday was our full day of touristing. First we went to the Accademia Gallery, since Kristen remembered going to the Uffizi and the Uffizi is usually crazier on your average Saturday. We enjoyed the art, most of all seeing the real David, which I always find amazing! Well by always I mean the two times I've seen it now. After lunch we made our way downtown and wandered around in a bunch of the small streets near the Duomo. We found a cute place for lunch, with a nice ambience and seemingly good menu. We got some bruschetta, Kristen got pasta filled with cheese and pear (which is actually a pretty common combination here, it is really good - don't knock it til you've tried it!) and I got gnocchi with like a pepper sauce. It was pretty good but I had a little bit of "orderer's remorse" which I hate! Either way I very much enjoyed the lunch...

We continued to wander around after lunch and then got some gelato at Grom, which I had heard was really good and wanted to try. I was going to go with some sort of chocolate-y sweet combination of flavors, but then pear and apple sounded really good, so I got those two flavors. They were really good, especially the apple! It literally tasted like someone pureed an apple and mixed it right in - so fresh and delicious! Next time I go to Grom I will try some of their more chocolate-y flavors.

I can't really remember if we did anything else after that, I think we went home to relax before going out to dinner. And of course, watched more Gilmore Girls! Then we went out to dinner, at a place near Palazzo Vecchio and Piazza della Signoria. I probably would have ordered Chianti, but I know Kristen likes white wine better and it seemed more fun to get a bottle and not be restricted to glasses. I chose the cheapest white there was, which also seemed to be fruity (another thing Kristen likes in wine). It was so cool - they brought the wine and did that thing where they show it to you and you taste it, and it was the first time I had ever done that! I don't know, I felt so grown up... Dinner was really enjoyable! I got pasta with lobster and it actually had real chunks of the meat, plus the sauce was really good. A very scrumptious meal. Kristen and I also split two desserts - an apple cake and a chocolate cake - also very yummy! We also just kept talking and talking... and since you have to ask for the bill, we ended up just talking and stayed in the restaurant for about 3 hours! The time seemed to fly though, and it was really nice. Much like my visit with Deneb (and possibly even more, this being a Georgetown friend) it was SO nice to talk to a close friend in person and just have that comfort level! To be honest with you all, I haven't really made any real, lasting connections here with peers, and I have my lonely moments. I didn't expect to be looking forward so much to the other Georgetown students arriving (in spring), but I am. I will be fine til then, but as it turns out being so independent sometimes has its down moments... ah well.

On Sunday, we (surprise) watched a little Gilmore Girls and then I had to take Kristen to the station... which was sad, but we had such a great time together and I'm so glad we had that visit! The other sad part about her leaving was that I had to start really studying for my test, and really, who would want to do that?

Alright, I think I will stop here. I got out most of the important stuff I had not written about, so hopefully I'll have a chance to write about other little things soon! I will really try to be better! Thanks for your patience everyone!