Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Recent Anecdotes

Sometimes when things happen to me, I start to blog about them in my head. I think for this last month or so, I will try to get as many of those random little moments of Italy life up here as I can, starting with this post. Since lately lists seem fun, I will go with that.

1) Sunscreen. I got some sun this weekend, in a couple places more than I'd have liked. I had some to use, but as a group we did very badly at supplying ourselves. Lucia (aka Georgetown) bought some for all of us to use the second day. I figured it was better to supply myself with some so I am not caught without it again, so I headed to the supermarket, where I buy all of my personal care products. Sure enough, it was on a special display, but I noticed something odd. Most of the sunscreen was in very low SPF. It also comes in 20, which I am not sure if I have ever seen in the US. There was a lot of 20 and a lot of 15, a little 30 and a couple things of 50 (but possibly only in a kind advertised as for children). I think I ended up getting a 30 bottle. As I stood there I found myself musing on what this might reveal about Italian culture as compared to American - or is it because, on average, we are paler than they are? It could be, or maybe they just don't care about the risks of skin cancer as much. After all, they don't seem to care about lung cancer...

2) This is from our trip to Maremma too. On Saturday afternoon, we stopped for sandwiches on our way to the beach, in a small town near the sea in Southern Tuscany. Picture us rolling into the (basically empty) place - 5 American girls replete with sunglasses, tank tops, shorts, skirts, and bathing suits underneath, and two more adult Italian women. I know we may have been a sight at the moment. So then we go to ascertain what the sandwich options are. For one, Megan doesn't eat meat so Lucia asked what she could have. Mozzarella and tomato, was the answer. Oh, lovely. Someone else wanted that too. Then another person ventured, "I'd like prosciutto but with mozzarella instead of fontina (as he'd listed as a choice)." "Oh, no, I can't do that. Pecorino yes, but not mozzarella. Mozzarella with tomato. Okay, two mozzarella and tomato." At this point, he disappeared into the back! 5 of us were left without having ordered, hoping he would come back to find out what we wanted too. Lucia talked to another of the workers there and she went to investigate for us. When he returned, he related that there was only enough mozzarella and/or tomato for two of those. Ah, a bit more clear now. So the rest of us had to work around that... I went with pecorino and prosciutto. Yum.

As we sat down to eat, they turned the light on. I told you it was empty. All 5 of us Americans got Coke of some type or another (regular, "light", and zero) and we were asked more than once if we were sure we didn't want glasses with them. I found myself wondering exactly how uncouth we seemed to them, drinking straight out of the can...

Lucia mentioned that at times it's just... different, in a small town as opposed to the city. She and her friend Paola were as confused as we were by the seemingly arbitrary limits of choice. Come to find out, it's not high tourist season yet and they only have so much in terms of supplies... ah ok. And the next day, at a similar type of place, we were again limited by the types and quantity of bread available. I wondered if we prevented anyone else from getting a sandwich later in the day.

3) One of my tutors here is basically a socialist, and sometimes it gets difficult for Neza and I to deal with his often off-topic pontificating. (Our class is about Italian unification and today we got to learn a bit about Bosnia and all about Spain. For example.) Today though, he put a recent Italian political event in pretty good perspective, at least in my mind. Basically, the not-so-beloved Berlusconi has been in the news for his statements about illegal immigration. Recently the Italian authorities turned back a boat full of illegal migrants from Libya without screening for asylum requests, leading to outcry from the Pope, the UN, and others. You can read all about it here. Anyway, Alvaro (our tutor) was referring to why they come and how no legal measures will keep them out so long as they are motivated by basic survival and lack of food. He put it this way - "In Africa, they don't have much, but they have TVs. And they see the commercials. They see an American, or German, or Canadian housewife whose problem at the supermarket is deciding whether to feed their dog chicken or beef. And then, where their cat will use the bathroom, 10 types of this and that and the other thing... and yet in Africa they are dealing with problems like civil war and starvation." He went on, but basically he was saying that as long as there exist such poverty and desperate situations, the problem won't go away. And Alvaro also seems pretty peeved that Berlusconi is using this rhetoric when Italians themselves were desperate immigrants in huge quantities in the not too distant past. Plus, Italians don't do the difficult and physically demanding jobs - Italian industry depends on immigrant labor - something that the news articles speak of as well.

I don't know, it's interesting. As an American I'm very aware of the nature of these debates, but what really sort of offended me about Berlusconi was his saying that Italy is not a multi-ethnic country and shouldn't be one. Thinking of it, I guess that makes sense, coming from America, land of the melting pot.

Sometimes the opinions of Alvaro and others can verge on a bit outlandish, but at least they give me the opportunity to reflect on the world and what I believe - and a chance to understand what non-Americans think.

4) I did my presentation, and it went well, yay! It gave me a chance to pat myself on the back for the relative ease with which the language came to me, even in front of a group (albeit a small one).

5) Before the presentation, I was talking with Eva and with the Italians in my class, and the conversation went to pastries and gelato and food. Typical (in a good way!). It was nice to relate to them about good and bad gelato, etc. My recent visitors have made me quite the expert. Also, one of them verified that I was American and asked where I was from, causing Valentina (I happen to know her name and she is nice) to exclaim once more over how she would love to visit Washington DC. (I always say, from Connecticut but university is in Washington DC.) Also on la Ruota della Fortuna today, the trip prize was to New York. The man who won said he'd never been to the other side of the ocean before. Moments like that just reinforce for me that the exotic is not inherent in any one place or another - the exotic is the unknown, the difficult to reach, the far away. A trip to NYC is exotic for them, a trip to Chianti Country in Tuscany is exotic for us. The history and beauty of Florence fascinates me at times, and Valentina would think it was incredibly cool to visit the city that I've lived in for two years and will for one more (though I can't blame her, it's a great place!).

6) Today I succeeded at snapping up a couple of readings for my upcoming church art history exam. I know that may sound sort of banal to you, but trust me, when you've spent hours at la Biblioteca Nazionale and ended up with "we don't have this book" - you'll feel pretty great too, when you actually do procure things. I am so glad that libraries in the US are better than La Biblioteca Nazionale in Florence...

7) Tomorrow I am off to meet up with my grandparents and their friends David and Rhonda. I will take the train to get closer to where they've rented a villa, and they'll pick me up using their rental car. I know they've been to San Gimignano while I was busy, and maybe Siena as well. With them I will hopefully get to Volterra and the Chianti region. I feel really lucky that their visit can afford me the opportunity to visit some of the less accessible parts of Tuscany!

Hopefully you've enjoyed this somewhat random glimpse at life lately. A presto!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Long time, no blog...

Sorry everyone! This is starting to remind me of when I was younger, I could never keep a journal or diary going for very long at once, and that seems to be what is happening now... oops. A lot has happened in the past month or so, but I need to do the quick quick version in order to not spend forever on this! Something is better than nothing right?

1) Middle of April and Easter

Over Easter, a friend from Georgetown, Allie, came to Florence and I was able to spend some time with her! (Her blog is linked over there, she is studying in Paris.) It was really nice to see her and play tourist in Florence again. On Easter morning, we witnessed the festivities surrounding "Lo Scoppio del Carro" or the Explosion of the Cart. There was a really cool parade with costumes and oxen and the giant cart, and it culminated in front of the Duomo with what was essentially a pyrotechnics display. It's so great to know I took advantage of that experience! A few days later, I met up with Allie and a high school friend of hers who is studying in Florence and we did real aperitivo - where the price of a drink pays for a buffet where you can take as much as you want. Definitely a great deal and I hope to do it again before I leave!

2) Visiting with David's parents

Toward the end of April, Dave's parents (my future parents-in-law) took a two week trip to Italy and I spent the middle part of it with them. First up was a weekend in southern Italy which was great. I met them on a train in Rome and we continued to Naples, and from there we had a 2-hour guided visit of Pompeii before reaching our hotel in Sorrento. We spent one full day in Capri (the island off the coast) and another along the Amalfi Coast. For Capri, we had a guide, Ernesto, and as the other group didn't show it was a private tour for us. Having Ernesto really streamlined things and we got to do everything Dave's parents had on their list. Among the highlights were the Blue Grotto and the Mt. Solaro chairlift. Plus, the entire day was enriched by the fact that we had incredible weather - so lucky and beautiful! It was truly amazing scenery.

The Amalfi Drive outing they'd scheduled was cancelled due to some sort of road issues, but we ended up taking SITA, the Italian intercity bus service, to Positano and then Amalfi along the Costa Amalfitana, and that day turned out amazingly as well. We took our time exploring Positano, got our feet wet (literally), and had lunch overlooking the Mediterranean. Then we made our way to Amalfi and eventually had dinner there before heading back to Sorrento. I felt so lucky to have seen such beautiful places and with such great company! (Sidenote: I am lucky to be really fortunate in the in-laws I am gaining. Since I was 16 I've spent a lot of time with them and as such, they are already basically like family. Parents-in-law usually has such a negative connotation and luckily enough that isn't my situation!)

After the trip, Dave's parents spent a few days here in Florence and I saw them as much as I could in between classes. It all culminated with a lovely dinner with my host family and my visitors the last night they were here.

3) My grandparents' visit

Not long after Dave's parents' departure, my grandparents arrived in Florence! They got here on May 2 and much as before, I've been spending time with them where I can. I got to spend a night with Venice in them, which was great, last week. Now they've transferred to a villa in the Tuscan countryside, but once my school week is over I will head down there to spend a few days with them and their friends who came to Italy as well.

4) Group Georgetown trip

This past weekend, I went to Maremma, which is the southern part of Tuscany, with Lucia, her friend Paola (who provided a second car), and 4 of the 5 other Georgetown girls studying here this semester. It was lots of fun, and great to see some beautiful scenery in a part of Tuscany that isn't easily accessible without a car. We spent parts of both days at the beach, got to soak in some thermal springs, and stayed at a very nice "agriturismo" in the countryside.

5) School

School is actually playing a big part in my life right now, which I realize must shock you all from all the various vacations I've had. Today I have a presentation (I think I am good for it... let's hope so!), then over the next few weeks there are a couple papers to write and an exam to study for, plus finishing up sessions with my tutors for my classes. I will be officially done on June 3, which leads to my next topic...

6) My Impending Departure

There were times when it seemed like it would never happen. I've always known this was temporary, but back in September and October, June seemed a looooong way away. My departure is scheduled for June 5, giving me about 3.5 weeks left in Italy! It is sort of bittersweet, but to be honest with you, with an emphasis on sweet. Maybe I will go into more detail later, but I am truly really excited to go home. I am also trying to make sure I remain present and appreciative of the end of this time here, but going home is going to feel nice.

Alright, off to get ready for class and later on after that, my presentation! Things are busy these days but I will try to be a bit better about my updates! Emphasis on try...